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  • Writer's pictureJulia Koroleva

New Horizons Therapy NY Blog: Managing Conflict with Your Partner on Parenting


Parenting is a journey filled with joy, challenges, and inevitable disagreements. When you and your partner have different parenting styles or approaches, conflicts can arise, leading to stress and tension in your relationship. However, with effective communication and a willingness to compromise, it's possible to navigate these conflicts and strengthen your partnership.

Here are some tips for managing conflict with your partner on parenting:

  1. Choose the Right Time and Place: Avoid discussing sensitive parenting issues when you're both tired, stressed, or in front of your children. Set aside dedicated time to talk privately, without distractions.

  2. Active Listening and Empathy: When discussing parenting disagreements, make a conscious effort to truly listen to your partner's perspective. Try to understand their concerns, motivations, and reasoning behind their approach.

  3. Focus on Collaboration: Remember, you and your partner are on the same team. Approach parenting conflicts with a collaborative mindset, seeking solutions that work for both of you and prioritize your child's well-being.

  4. Compromise and Flexibility: Parenting rarely involves black-and-white solutions. Be willing to compromise and find middle ground where both of your perspectives are considered and respected.

  5. Avoid Blame and Criticism: Instead of focusing on who's right or wrong, concentrate on finding solutions that address the underlying issues. Use "I" statements to express your feelings and concerns without attacking your partner.

  6. Seek Professional Guidance: If conflicts persist or escalate, consider seeking professional help from a couples therapist or family counselor. They can provide a safe space for open communication, facilitate conflict resolution, and offer tools for effective co-parenting.

  7. Regular Check-Ins: Schedule regular check-ins with your partner to discuss parenting strategies, share concerns, and celebrate successes. This can help prevent small issues from escalating into major conflicts.


Remember, conflicts are a natural part of any relationship, including parenting partnerships. By approaching disagreements with empathy, open communication, and a willingness to compromise, you can strengthen your bond with your partner and create a nurturing environment for your children.


At New Horizons Therapy NY, we offer couples therapy and family counseling to help parents navigate conflicts, improve communication, and develop effective co-parenting strategies. Contact us today to learn more about how we can support your family's well-being.


Disclaimer: This blog post is intended for informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional advice. If you're experiencing significant conflict in your parenting partnership, please seek help from a qualified mental health professional.


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